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Jeera Finally...

 

Assalamualaikum everyone!

Yesterday I kind of walking down the memory lane by reviewing the posts in my blog. The last post was made in 2018— which was about 5 years ago.

and now, I’m writing again, not as a single and lonely girl, but as a happy wife and mother.

Oh yes, I’ve been married for almost 2 years after a series of broken heart haha! Alhamdulillah, married to the most handsome and kindest man on earth (of course la kena puji, boleh la claim hadiah birthday best2). I met him through Baituljannah.com, a muslim dating website in 2021. Some people would think that I am desperate to marry when I sign up for dating website, but naaaah. I did it just to meet new people because it’s hard for me to get to know new people by coincidence during PKP. And also, since I am an introverted person, it is more comfortable to talk to new people online rather than offline.

So, in that dating website, if you are interested with the man/girl, but too shy to strike a conversation, then you can click ‘kirim salam’ first on that person’s profile. Yes, of course you can kirim salam to many people if you so rambang mata haha! Don’t worry, your name will not be published to the other party unless you agree to ‘taaruf luar’. The conversations are also being monitored by their admin. You cannot exchange phone numbers or social media unless you agree to taaruf luar. You violate the rules, you’ll be banned.

As for me, I get to know few men, and my husband also started with kirim salam first. Well, so many men kirim salam to me and I usually not respond to that. Unless they start the conversation first. So did my husband. We were just having chats on the website and after one month, both of us agreed to taaruf luar. This decision also influenced by my late reply to the chats and being jual mahal. Amboi.

So, we started whatsapp-ing each other, and frankly speaking, I was afraid to meet him. I had these thoughts, what if he is not handsome? what if he is not what he is? and so many what if’s lists going on. But I see his sincerity and meeting him for the first time left me with an impression; he is surely a husband material.  How do I know? Hahaha just let me keep it to myself la korang.

The rest is history.

Now, we are entering our second year together. We are still getting to know each other and embracing each other’s flaws.

And guys, please pray for me. I want to kurus so bad like before. It’s soooo hard to be istiqamah. Now, I’m hoping for a miracle (ya I know I need to work hard but daydream is FOC!).

Buh-bye.

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