Assalamualaikum everyone! Yesterday I kind of walking down the memory lane by reviewing the posts in my blog. The last post was made in 2018— which was about 5 years ago. and now, I’m writing again, not as a single and lonely girl, but as a happy wife and mother. Oh yes, I’ve been married for almost 2 years after a series of broken heart haha! Alhamdulillah, married to the most handsome and kindest man on earth (of course la kena puji , boleh la claim hadiah birthday best2). I met him through Baituljannah.com, a muslim dating website in 2021. Some people would think that I am desperate to marry when I sign up for dating website, but naaaah. I did it just to meet new people because it’s hard for me to get to know new people by coincidence during PKP. And also, since I am an introverted person, it is more comfortable to talk to new people online rather than offline. So, in that dating website, if you are interested with the man/girl, but too shy to strike a conversation, ...
Find someone who loves you well. Someone who never belittles you. Even in the heat of an argument. Someone who is gentle with you, but does not treat you like you are fragile. Someone who knows what you are capable of, and celebrates those pieces of you. Not someone who is intimidated by your strength. Someone who doesn’t make you feel guilty for being flawed. It is not love’s job to punish you. And remember the person you love is just as broken as you are when they fall short. No one is perfect – do not hold them to this standard. Find someone who is patient, forgiving, and apologetic. Someone who practices forgiveness freely and often. Love someone who is humble, kind, and empathetic. Not only with you, but with a beggar on the street, or a stranger in the supermarket. Common courtesy is important. Compassion is important. Kindness is important.