Assalamualaikum everyone!
Yesterday I kind of walking down the memory lane by reviewing
the posts in my blog. The last post was made in 2018— which was about 5 years
ago.
and now, I’m writing again, not as a single and lonely girl,
but as a happy wife and mother.
Oh yes, I’ve been married for almost 2 years after a series
of broken heart haha! Alhamdulillah, married to the most handsome and kindest
man on earth (of course la kena puji, boleh la claim hadiah
birthday best2). I met him through Baituljannah.com, a muslim dating website in
2021. Some people would think that I am desperate to marry when I sign up for
dating website, but naaaah. I did it just to meet new people because it’s hard
for me to get to know new people by coincidence during PKP. And also, since I am
an introverted person, it is more comfortable to talk to new people online
rather than offline.
So, in that dating website, if you are interested with the
man/girl, but too shy to strike a conversation, then you can click ‘kirim salam’
first on that person’s profile. Yes, of course you can kirim salam to
many people if you so rambang mata haha! Don’t worry, your name will not
be published to the other party unless you agree to ‘taaruf luar’. The
conversations are also being monitored by their admin. You cannot exchange
phone numbers or social media unless you agree to taaruf luar. You
violate the rules, you’ll be banned.
As for me, I get to know few men, and my husband also started
with kirim salam first. Well, so many men kirim salam to me and I
usually not respond to that. Unless they start the conversation first. So did
my husband. We were just having chats on the website and after one month, both
of us agreed to taaruf luar. This decision also influenced by my late
reply to the chats and being jual mahal. Amboi.
So, we started whatsapp-ing each other, and frankly
speaking, I was afraid to meet him. I had these thoughts, what if he is not
handsome? what if he is not what he is? and so many what if’s lists going on. But
I see his sincerity and meeting him for the first time left me with an
impression; he is surely a husband material. How do I know? Hahaha just let me keep it to myself
la korang.
The rest is history.
Now, we are entering our second year together. We are still
getting to know each other and embracing each other’s flaws.
And guys, please pray for me. I want to kurus so bad like
before. It’s soooo hard to be istiqamah. Now, I’m hoping for a miracle (ya I
know I need to work hard but daydream is FOC!).
Buh-bye.
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